Friday, June 17, 2011

Three things

1. I am pretty sure I witnessed a miracle at work yesterday. So that's always nice.

2. A friend of mine is having twins in a week (or ONE WEEK!!!! as she describes it). I keep wanting to share some of my "lessons learned" with her but i am too freaking lazy to send an email. I'm hoping to write them here ASAP and then get your input as well!

3. I already bitched to CCBL and she wrote a whole blog entry about it here but here's my story - I am hosting playgroup today. A woman called me and said "hey, my child is sick and I just got yelled at by another friend for having a playdate earlier this week but I'm going to bring him to your house if you don't mind". WHY YES, I do mind. If my child gets sick, she can't go to daycare. If she can't go to daycare, one of her parents must stay home. I don't know about you but i like using my vacation time for PLANNED VACATIONS and not for staying home with a sick child.

I think there is a fine line between the runny nose that all children have all winter long and being actively sick.

Oh and here is a fourth item - I flew alone with the baby (toddler) this week. WOW. It was tough. I don't know how AMW does it with two children!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

CSA, week #1

Mike has been interested in local and healthier eating lately (after watching "Food Incorporated" and reading "The Omnivore's Dilemma"). Without having to do any of the grunt work, I've been able to reap the benefits. We were already drinking organic, hormone-free milk and Mike now buys cage-free (humanely-raised) eggs. He also bought a beef share a month or so ago so we have plenty of frozen meat in the fridge.

Today was the first day of our CSA fruit/veggie haul. We didn't have the greatest experience last year so I was hesitant but excited to try this new CSA. What a bounty!

- red beets
- dark green leaf lettuce
- spinach
- Hakurei turnips
- bok choy
- snap peas
- pea tendrils
- scallions (or green onions, depending on what you call them!)

Here's our cooking/eating plan - please offer any suggestions!

- we roasted the beets, green onions and turnips
- lettuce is ready for salads
- we wilted the spinach with some salt and olive oil (deelish)
- snap peas are pretty much eaten already
- bok choy is chopped and ready for a stir fry tomorrow
- NO IDEA about the pea tendrils. Not a clue. Help, please!

Of course, I had prepped dinner prior to this evening's pick-up. So with all that organic, local, healthy food, what did we eat tonight?



That's right - processed crap. Yum!

Friday, June 3, 2011

Easy

I'm putting together a Shutterfly book for my daughter's first year (hoping to make this an annual tradition - I already did one for her gestation and birth) so Mike and I were looking at photos from last summer.

And even though the photo subject was (and is) adorable, I definitely felt a little sad looking at her (and us). We just all looked so miserable! For myself, it was a combination of new-mom-ness plus post-partum depression. For her, it was normal newborn behavior plus reflux plus that first terrible (and ineffective) hip brace. For Mike, it was trying to keep it together for his crying ladies while also going to work every day!

And we got through that year and we survived and some might even say we thrived. But would I say it was easy? Ummm, no. And would I say I had an easy baby? Ummm, no (at least not after she got the Pavlik brace). I reread some of my old blog posts and I had forgotten how sad it was that we could only snuggle for one hour per day. Luckily it wasn't for a long period (she was waened to 12 hours/day after a few months) but it was rough at the time to maximize our bathtime/snuggling/breastfeeding in those short sixty minutes.


A few comments and segues into reflux:
- once we got a different kind of brace, everything changed! What I thought was crankiness due to reflux was apparently just discomfort from the brace. She became such a happy baby!
- since she continued with the reflux, the pediatrician dubbed her a "happy spitter". As the person who did the laundry, I disagree with the term "spitter"! This was not spit!
- the puking (and even all spit up) stopped magically when she started walking. It was such a distinct line - one day, crawling and spitting up everywhere (i needed to bring a burpcloth for a 5 min errand into CVS) and then walking and NOTHING. No puke, no spitup, nothing. Amazing.

And most importantly...just because they are fussy and not easy, it doesn't mean they aren't cute!